​If you imagine the world as a perfect little place where every human do​es what they truly desire and are passionate, it would literally be amazing! Everyone seeing one another(even strangers) as a “family” with no judgement, no hate just pure uplifting energy and love, the world would be full of amazing creations. 

I strongly believe that people like Oprah, Tony Robbins, Will Smith and Stephen Hawking have gifts that they’ve unlocked inside themselves, leading them to create their greatness that all of us humans share, BUT have not yet connected to. We have to take the responsibility for getting that gift. 

You can’t control circumstances that happen outside of you,but what you can control is how you choose to think and deal with them. My motto is grow through what you go through!Meaning, you may have to grit your teeth and go through some tough times to unlock the next level of your life!

You see, to connect to your inner power continuously throughout your life and really become the person you’re meant to be, to make a change on this planet, we have tochange our way of thinking. This is what has helped me upgrading my thinking as follows: 

• Never judge yourself more than once - That’s all you need to learn from mistakes. We all make them! The difference in people, is how many times we make the same mistake before we learn. Never feel guilty about it afterwards, as guilt Serves no purpose once your situation is dealt with.

• Never judge others - I can’t say it enough, this alone will change your life! Never give someone else the power to bring your energy down, it’s a wasted time and you’renot responsible for anyone else but yourself! Which funnily enough, brings me to my next point. 

• Take responsibility for yourself and your actions - You only control you, so don’t try to blame anyone else for anything you have done or for how you have acted, as their actions reflect them and not you. My favourite quote is “if someone respects you, respect them, if someone disrespects you, still respect them, your actions represent yourself and not others” 

• Don’t be a victim to your circumstances - Life happens!The good feeling stuff and the not so good feeling stuff,but if we still know we can hold our s*it together when times get tough, we will never loose ourselves and just grow even more. 

• Get excited by the bad times – It’s like training a muscleat the gym, it must hurt to grow, it has feel a bit on the sore side before it gets stronger. It’s the same with our minds, but you have to make it your choice to, as my saying goes: GROW THROUGH WHAT CHUUU GO THROUGH!! 

• Always see the positives in your situation and the people you’re surrounded with - What you focus on grows.Grow that positive stuff up like your life depended on it,because it basically does. 

• Do your best – But, know your best will be different on different days and that’s ok! Sometimes I feel like I could run a marathon, other days I know my body needs rest and that is the beauty of balance.

• Get rid of excuses - Do what’s most important first and make no exceptions! Getting what truly sets your soul on fire is worth it! If that means getting up at 5:30am and missing the odd night out... Do it and feel grateful after! 

• Love yourself - If we are happy with who we are, we will always make our best choices for us and if everyone wasat their best, the world would be its best.

• Fog v’s reality - Now this is a little game I play with myself regularly. We all have disempowering thoughts, (these are what I call “the fog thoughts”) but what we need to realise, they’re not the truth! It’s just your thinking Limited beliefs , see your “foggy thoughts” as lies and write them down, then replace them with a more positive view on that same thought. 

• Realise that fear is just an illusion - Live your life in the moment and you will realise that fear is fake. Once you challenge the fear and do whatever it is your fearing, it disappears straight away right? Just before doing something I feel fearful of, I just think “feel the fear and do it anyway”.

The list could literally go on and on, but I do actually want people to finish reading this post! Get out there and truly start LIVING! Just remember we’re only on Earth for a short amount of time, so we might as well enjoy it lots and lots! By doing that, we have to look after ourselves and become our best to shine our light on everyone so we can all grow on this planet together 🌱🌎